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Glen Kirkland, an Afghanistan veteran, said that the incidents involving NDP MP Christine Moore began after he testified before a parliamentary committee in July 2013. (CBC) 

The media knew about reports of inappropriate behaviour of NDP MP Christine Moore but did not initially cover them, according to the Afghanistan veteran who has made allegations against her.

Glen Kirkland alleges that the Quebec MP invited him to her office after he testified before a parliamentary committee in July 2013.

He told the CBC's Neil Macdonald that she later followed him back to his hotel room, where she spent the night. In the weeks and months that followed, she sent him a string of explicit messages and showed up at his home.

"I'm not claiming rape here or anything, I want to make that very clear," Kirkland told The Current's Anna Maria Tremonti. As a soldier, he said, Moore's position as an elected MP created a power imbalance between them.

"This is a story of a Member of Parliament taking advantage of their position to get what they want," he said.

"If my gender was female, and [it was] a male MP, think about how different this would be. We'd be talking about jail time, or even worse."


The incident was well-known among parliamentary reporters and even the butt of occasional jokes, said Kirkland, who is now a realtor in Brandon, Man.

"I don't like to think of myself as a survivor. I prefer 'thriver,' he told Macdonald.

"But what she did was inappropriate. Was I a willing participant? I guess it depends on your definition of willing. There was a power imbalance. There was a level of authority there."

Supporting men who survive abuse

"The vast majority of men who have had this experience don't perceive themselves as survivors," said Rick Goodwin, clinical director of Men & Healing, a group that offers counselling services for men who have suffered trauma.

Part of the challenge of providing support to men who are subjected to sexual violence, he added, is that it's fundamentally seen as a woman's experience.

Kirkland's story defies the popular conception of the topic, he told Tremonti.

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Goodwin is a consultant with 1 in 6, an international support organization for male survivors of sexual assault.

"The 1 in 6 reference is for males who have had that experience as children," he said, adding that the figure is closer to 1 in 8 when expanded to include adults.

In 2014 figures, Statistics Canada found that only 1 in 200 men report sexual assault.​

Why men don't report

Despite the momentum of the #MeToo movement, it is still incredibly hard for most survivors to come forward, said Lenore Lukasik-Foss, the chair of the Ontario Coalition of Rape Crisis Centres.

"Sometimes males are socialized that they don't feel it's OK to seek help, they may not feel comfortable [or] able to talk about this," she told Tremonti. "There may be shame in a different kind of way."

When they do come forward, she said, the stories that men tell are the same as the ones of female survivors.

The reality is that women are still more vulnerable, and we just know that.- Lenore Lukasik-Foss

Men at greater risk include those who are gay or perceived as gay, as well as men with physical or intellectual disabilities, she said.

On the whole however, women experience this kind of violence in greater numbers.

"I'm not trying to lessen the victimization that men and male-identified folks experience — we know that that's real," she said. "But the reality is that women are still more vulnerable, and we just know that."

Kirkland hopes 'gender won't be a factor'

Earlier this year, Moore sent an email complaining about the behaviour of fellow NDP MP Erin Weir, which prompted an investigation and his ousting from the caucus last week.

Kirkland believes that these developments are what brought the story to light, even though it had long been the subject of persistent rumours among parliamentary reporters.

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The Current requested an interview with Moore but she declined, stating that "out of respect for the fairness and the integrity of the process, I will not be commenting further on these allegations at this point." She was suspended from caucus duties earlier this week, pending an investigation.

Kirkland wants the coverage to send a message about the responsibilities of people in positions of power, and he hopes that the NDP's ultimate decision will be fair.

"I hope that gender isn't a defining fact in this," he said, "it should be an equal balance for everyone."


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